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As the academic year draws to a close at Bowling Green State University, families prepare for the cherished yet sometimes complicated summer break, when BGSU students finish their classes and find themselves with more free time and fewer structured responsibilities. These months can be a time of joy and reconnection, but they can also present challenges as families and students readjust to new routines.
Here are some tips, along with BGSU-specific resources, to help parents and families successfully navigate the change that is summer break.
1. Respect their independence
Over the past year, your Falcon has likely developed new routines and a greater sense of independence while living on campus, engaging in student organizations, and navigating their coursework. As summer begins, having open conversations about expectations—curfews, responsibilities at home, shared spaces—can help everyone stay on the same page.
Encourage mutual respect and acknowledge the personal growth they’ve experienced at BGSU.
2. Encourage responsibility through employment
Summer is an excellent opportunity for students to engage in internships or part-time jobs that align with their career goals or personal interests. BGSU students can get a head start on their job or internship search through the Michael & Sara Kuhlin Hub for Career Design and Connections. The Hub offers virtual and in-person resume reviews, mock interviews, and job search strategies tailored to BGSU students.
Encourage your student to explore the Student Employment Services job board, where they can find opportunities both locally and nationally. Your support – whether it’s offering a listening ear or helping them review a cover letter – can boost their confidence and help them find meaningful summer work.
3. Set aside time for family
Summer can quickly fill up with plans, work shifts, or travel, but carving out time for family is still essential. Whether it’s weekly family dinners, weekend outings, or just chatting over morning coffee, these moments foster a more profound connection.
Consider involving your BGSU student in planning family activities, respecting their time while allowing them to feel included. You might even attend an event in BG together, especially if you're local or planning a visit. Staying connected to the BGSU event calendar can help you find Falcon-friendly activities you both might enjoy.
4. Practice patience and understanding:
Adjusting to a new summer rhythm isn’t always seamless. After living more independently at BGSU, your student may return home with different habits or expectations. It’s normal for tensions to arise during this reentry period.
Approach these changes with empathy. Just as you’re adjusting, so are they. They are reacclimating to a shared household while navigating their evolving identity as young adults. Remember, the BGSU Counseling Center remains a resource even over the summer.
5. Foster open communication:
Make time for regular check-ins, not just about schedules and chores, but also about how they’re feeling, what they’re learning, and where they’re headed. Open, two-way communication builds trust and helps avoid misunderstandings.
BGSU places a strong emphasis on student wellness, including emotional and relational well-being. Encourage your student to reflect on what they’ve learned this year – not just academically, but also personally – and share some of your own reflections as well. That mutual vulnerability strengthens the foundation of your relationship.
Final thoughts...
Enjoying the summer with your Falcon requires a balance of respect, encouragement and togetherness. By recognizing their independence, supporting their endeavor for summer employment, prioritizing quality family time, and practicing patience, parents and supporters can make the most of this season. With open communication and mutual respect, this summer can be a rewarding experience for the whole family, strengthening your bond for years to come.
